There is often a significant gap between what a probate attorney tells you about privacy and what is actually possible using real estate and administrative "buffers."
Your attorney is correct: the law requires certain things to be public. They will tell you that the filing is a matter of record and there is nothing you can do about it. From a strictly legal perspective, they are right.
However, from a practical perspective, there are layers of protection that most real estate agents and attorneys don't discuss. These aren't about hiding the case, but about managing how your data flows from the courthouse to the solicitors' hands.
There are options for structuring the real estate side of a probate that can materially reduce the "visibility" of the transaction to the general public until the moment it is actually time to sell. These involve:
If you value your family's privacy and want to avoid the "public spectacle" that probate often becomes, there is a better way to handle the real estate piece. This is not about cutting corners—it's about using the available rules to your advantage.